Essay On Recollection Of Early Childhood

When most people think about their early childhood memories, they just seem like fairly ordinary experiences that happened to them a long time ago. What is almost unknown about early recollections is that they reveal glimpses into a person's deepest nature and ways of perceiving life. Before individuals are 8 years old they tend to remember only a handful of first memories, and usually the remembrances occur in silence and in black and white. Almost everything in an early recollection matters: what a person is doing, where the experience takes place, the senses expressed, and prominent objects.

In an example of an early recollection, Erin, who is 40 years old, relates the following memory: "I remember when I was little and my mother was combing my hair. She had just given me a bath and allowed me to sit on a soft blue chair in her bedroom. When mama combed my hair, I could feel her soft hands, and she sang a pretty song."

When interpreting this first memory, notable features emerge that are revealing of Erin's personality and way of being. Erin's mother has always been a loving and caring person in her life. Home is where Erin feels most comfortable as a place to find solace and comfort. For Erin, touch is significant in her daily existence. She regularly seeks out touch from people that she knows, and a day without a hug never seems right to her. Erin also finds color to be essential in her life. In her attire, home furnishings, and immediate surroundings, Erin attends to color, and color is mood elevating. Erin loves to have sound in her life. Music, quiet conversations, rain falling on a tin roof, and numerous other aural experiences are highly appealing to Erin.

In contrast with Erin's early memory, Albert Einstein's first remembrance presents a different set of conditions. Einstein recalled as a child being in bed when his father brought him a compass. Einstein immediately becomes engrossed with the operation of the needle of the compass as it relentlessly points to magnetic north. Unlike Erin's memory, almost the whole remembrance centers on the compass as a scientific instrument. In Einstein's life, as an eminent physicist and iconic world figure, much of his time and interest was devoted to the pursuit of scientific knowledge and what captured his curiosity. His memory does not depict a sense of place, color, significant people, or other prominent features beyond the compass.

What early memories seem to serve is a way of understanding what life is like or about. In other words, the remembrances are purposeful and suggest that life is a place of support, caution, curiosity, or other ways of being. They also reveal particular personality features and preferences for sensory modalities. Further, the memories clarify the strengths and capabilities of individuals and aspects of functioning that are challenging. Challenge areas, such as a tendency to withdraw from adversity, become subject to change for a person as they become known by exploring one's early memories.

For over 40 years, I have utilized early recollections in my therapeutic practice and through exchanges in public gatherings. I have also written extensively on the topic of early childhood memories, and continue to give thought to what seems like for most people a common place occurrence from a long time ago.

My Childhood Memories of Good and Evil Essay

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My days were happy ones before I started going to school, as I had lots of neighbors to play with from morning till dark. We played games outdoors and rode about on our bicycles happily. The undeveloped woods behind our homes provided endless opportunities for adventure. There were also many other games to occupy our time.

My earliest recollection of fear was when I was barely four years old. To this day I can still remember vividly my physical and social surroundings during the event. As I lay on my back in my family room I tossed a rubber ball up and down as I tried to ignore the boring TV program my father was watching: the evening news. All of a sudden my curiosity awoke when I heard the newscaster say the word, "kidnapped." I…show more content…

It was only about 5 in the evening, but at that instant the night sky turned dark and cold. I no longer felt like an invincible child, safe from all harm. I never saw the picture of the boy on the news, because I blocked my eyes from seeing his face and having to remember it forever. As a result of this instance, I became less trusting of strangers, and less willing to be alone, even if it was only to go to bed for the night. Also, I would never read articles or watch the news if the story was about a child that was missing. My favorite childhood TV program was "Punky Brewster," I think the only episode I missed was when her friend was kidnapped.

Though this early recollection of the child being kidnapped was harmful, there were news stories that allowed me to grow and dream about in a childhood fantasy world again. My next recollection of a news event was when I was about five years old. It was the marriage of Princess Diana and Prince Charles. Their televised wedding was the first time I had ever watched TV for that long at one sitting time. Not only did the televised wedding have an impact on me, but all the events that lead up to this miraculous event. Before I saw their wedding on TV I had felt sorry for Diana, she seemed like a lost soul. The press portrayed her just an ordinary kindergarten teacher, until her "prince" rescued her. I thought about how lucky she was to marry into the royal family. I can still envision the moment. As I

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